“Freaks are the much needed escape from the humdrum. They are poetry.”
― Albert Perry
Many people in Chicago are first introduced to fetish at Bondage A Go Go, and it’s important that they receive messages of tolerance, acceptance, and inclusion. This applies to people of every race, creed, and orientation. It applies to Dominants and submissives alike. It applies to everyone, regardless of their gender. A respectful, inclusive, safe play space is our number one priority.
We believe that BDSM is for everyone who wants to explore and learn and play. As your Dominants and hosts of the event, we want you to feel 100% safe in our capable hands.
We welcome you, regardless of your orientation, color, creed, gender, or kink. You are welcome. Period. If you are being harassed or made to feel uncomfortable, we want to know about it. Approach one of the Dominants, or talk to a member of the bar staff. Even if you decide to leave, we want to deal with the person who made you feel unsafe or uncomfortable.
We want to answer your questions. If you are new to BDSM, you may have questions. About everything. Ask them. The trained, lifestyle Dominants at Bondage A Go Go will be happy to answer your questions. Of course, the bar environment might not be the best place to have an in-depth conversation, so we may ask you to contact us via phone or email if you require more elaborate information.
We want to help you explore. Some people know what they are into right away. Others might not know immediately…they need to explore a few things to find their niche. That’s fine, too. If you’re brand new and have no idea what to ask for, tell the Dominant. We deal with new people all the time. Most people need a little help figuring out what they like. It’s ok. We’re really good at what we do, and can start you off at a good place. The best thing about Bondage A Go Go is how *accessible it is. You don’t need a secret password or a membership card. It doesn’t have to cost a lot of money. If you are 21 or older, you can attend our event and participate in the activities.
All activities are consensual. That means nobody is going to start beating you (or touch you in any way) without your permission. You will discuss your preferences and limits with the Dominant before you begin playing. You will be given a safe word that you can use at any time if you need to stop playing.
It’s okay to hang back and watch. Watching can give you some idea of what sort of activities to ask for. You will see everyone having a good time. Just remember to keep a respectful distance. Everyone is entitled to their personal space. Please also note: the Dominants need space in which to work. Getting too close to the “action” can compromise the safety of the submissive, or cause you to get hit in the face by an errant whip or flogger…and nobody needs that.
No photography without explicit consent. If you are seen taking pictures or capturing footage without permission, you will be asked to cease. You will be asked to erase the pictures and footage. Chances are, you will be asked to leave. There are signs posted throughout the play space, reminding everyone to obtain consent before they shoot. In order for participants to feel safe, they need to know they can remain anonymous if that is their choice. We do have an event photographer, and he asks permission before he takes pictures. You are free to give or withdraw consent for photos at your sole discretion.
No disrespectful, abusive, or threatening language or behavior will be tolerated. There will be no gay bashing, no racial slurs, no woman hating. There will be no “outing” of anyone. No fighting or physical assault. There will be no second chances. Anyone who can’t abide by this, is clearly not evolved enough to participate in consensual, respectful play.
THERE IS NO DESIGNATED BATHROOM POLICE. Trans people have the right to use the bathroom they feel most comfortable using. Mind your own damned business and let them pee. If we learn of bathroom policing, harassment, or intimidation of any sort, the offender will be removed and barred from future attendance.
We want you to have a good time. Have a drink. Enjoy the music. Dance if you feel like it. Talk to the hosts and hostesses. Feel free to be yourself. We want you to feel safe and welcome. We want you to be able to scratch that itch that you’ve finally been able to name and define. We are honored to be your guides. The journey can be really amazing.
*regarding access: there are stairs.
**featured photo by PJ Weingart
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