Have you ever been to a fetish party? Even as you read the words, you probably conjured up images of whips cracking, chains rattling, and leather clad Mistresses and Masters leading slaves about by a leash. In most cases, you’d be right. But not all parties are the same.
Maybe all of that sounded like a bit much to you. Admittedly, it can be overwhelming- especially if you’re new to BDSM and fetish, or if your fetishes tend toward milder activities…like foot fetish play.
The Mistresses of The Continuum are hosting a foot fetish party on Saturday, August 3rd, from 8pm-1am (or later). Mistresses trade their corsets and vinyl for simple, sexy dresses. We sit around and sip beer or wine, chat, and listen to music. Of course, we play: the ladies who attend love playing, and have come especially to play. That sounds simple, but there’s a lot to explore…especially if you’re aware of the tactile capabilities of the foot.
Have you ever felt the baby soft soles of a woman’s feet, through a pair of even silkier nylons? Have you longed to inhale the leather scented sweat of a pair of beautiful feet, fresh out of shoes? Do you fantasize about sucking beautiful, long toes, or kissing them one at a time? Or perhaps using a feather or vibrating toy to mercilessly tickle a woman’s feet as she squirms and giggles? Do you dream of having beautiful, elegant arches draped across your face as you lie still and breathe in her naturally perfumed soles? Or maybe you enjoy laying flat and still while a lady tramples you, applying her weight to your body as you submit and lie there like a rug. Better yet, two ladies trampling you. Or more. The record at my dungeon is six ladies standing on one helpless, hapless gentleman. Of course, that was an exceptional case… but after all, records are made to be broken. Yes, this is the actual record breaking photograph. He survived to tell the tale.
Then, there’s shoes. Most foot fetishists have a favorite type of shoe. While many adore the classic black pumps, there’s room for many different styles: peep toe, stilleto, kitten heels, strappy, arch baring heels, platforms. Some people like leather, for the way the scent combines with the wearer’s pheromones. Then there’s the minimalists, those who like flip flops…so they can see all of the lovely toes on display. Of course, there’s stockings and hoisery: sheer silky nylon, or actual silk stockings are popular, as are classic black fishnets (I especially like the look of black fishnets with a beautiful red pedi).
The ladies know all of this because they all enjoy having attention paid to their feet. Many of them have gone out of their way to pamper and adorn their feet in ways that are designed to attract the attention of the foot fetishist. You’ll notice. You won’t be able to help but notice, when she crosses her legs and dangles her pump. Or when she points and flexes during a foot massage.
Whew! So, enough of that. What can you expect?
When you arrive, you will be greeted and shown to the visiting area, and then the play areas. There are public and private areas set aside for play, as well as “neutral” zones where there is no play (that would be the visiting area). Some people will be chatting, perhaps enjoying a cocktail. Others will be paired off for play sessions. If you’re nervous, it’s ok. Just relax. Someone will be around to chat and help take the edge off. Of course, the ladies all have their favorite activities…but chances are very good that there will be at least one or two who enjoys the same type of play that you do. When you do find that special lady, spend a minute or two talking to her about what you’re into, and what you like about feet. This will help her make sure you both have a good time. Of course, all activities must be consensual. Anyone is free to decline an invitation to play. If it’s not meant to be, move on and try again. Or, ask one of the hostesses for a recommendation. We have a pretty good idea of who enjoys what, and can probably help you break the ice to negotiate a play scene. Basically though just be polite and chill out. Everyone gets a little nervous now and then, but we’re all there to have fun.
Attendees are encouraged to bring beer or wine. It’s nice to be able to have a cocktail while you’re indulging your fetish, if that’s your thing. Of course if you don’t imbibe, we have bottled water and usually one other non alcoholic option, like soda or juice. Or you’re welcome to bring your own. Relax and enjoy yourself. It’s a low pressure environment. We have learned that the best play experiences happen when people are relaxed and at ease. Protocol is relaxed for these parties so everyone can have a good time regardless of their experience level. So if it’s your first party, that’s just fine! You will see that foot fetish parties are a great way to get your feet wet (OH YES I DID GO THERE). 😉
Again, the party will be held on November 30, from 8pm-1am (probably later…they always run late because we always have fun). Send us an email for additional info or to register: firstname.lastname@example.org. Include your name, phone number, and indicate whether you’ve ever been to a Continuum party. Also, tell us how and where you heard about it. We hope to see you there!